Hi Loves, welcome back to my blog. I decided to update this post since some things and products have changed in my natural hair routine. Today’s post is a long awaited one which I hope will answer most of your questions about how I grow and care for my Natural Hair.


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Background on My Hair: I decided to go natural in 2014. My last relaxer was in September 2014, which was when I started transitioning to natural hair (stopped putting relaxer on my hair and growing out my natural hair). I transitioned for 20 months, then I cut off the relaxed ends in May 2016.

My Hair Type & Length: My hair type is 4c; which means it is tightly coiled with little curl definition. Presently, this is my hair length at its shrinkiest and blown out.


02/12/2017 (18 Months Post Big Chop)


Flat Twistout: September  2018




Wash day is the most important day in my hair care routine. I always make sure to wash my hair at least  every 2 weeks and at times, every week.

N.B.: All products reviews, blog posts and videos mentioned, are linked below.


1.       CLEANSE: I shampoo my hair twice. I use a clarifying shampoo; my DIY African Black Soap Shampoo to cleanse & treat my scalp (prevent any scalp condition) and promote hair growth.  I follow up with any moisturising shampoo.


My Clarifying Shampoo mixture for scalp care


  • I follow up with any of these moisturising shampoos.

Moisturising Shampoos



  • To Co-wash my hair, I use the Cantu Shea Butter Complete Conditioning Co-wash. Review here


Favourite Co-Wash



2.        TREAT: I treat my hair with either Rice water or Tea rinse to prevent/reduce breakage and sheddings.

Tea rinse & Rice water rinse





3.       DEEP CONDITION: I deep condition my hair EVERY 2 WEEKS. This is VERY IMPORTANT. It provides hair with necessary nourishment it needs to retain length, more manageable, more pliable and avoid breakage. There are a lot of good deep conditioners on the market but I love to mix my hair mask myself.

  • Check here for my DIY Moisturising Hair mask. I use Avocado/& Banana, Honey, Olive oil, Coconut oil & JBCOil. At times, I use a regular conditioner or deep conditioner as a base.

DIY moisturising Hair Mask


  • or any of these store boughts.



  • Or I mix them together and add honey and my DIY Shea Butter Mix.


Click HERE for my deep conditioning post.




4.      DETANGLE: to be honest, natural hair is STUBBORN and hard to manage. This is the most tasking and at times tiring or frustrating but NECESSARY. It simply means separating or getting rid of all the knots and tangles. I always detangle my hair in the shower with a generous amount of conditioner using my hands first, then a wide tooth comb. I make sure to use a good conditioner or deep conditioner with great slip (meaning after applying it to my hair, it makes sliding my hands or comb through it easier). Check out how I detangle my hair post here.



5.      MOISTURISE:  Moisturising is very important. this is what will prevent your hair from drying out, tangling up and susceptible to breakage or damage. To moisturise my hair I use the  LCO or LOC methods which simply means order in which I’ll apply my products.

  • LCO means Liquid Cream  Oil,
  • LOC means Liquid Oil Cream,
  • LO means Liquid Oil.

My favourite method is the LCO method, I first apply warm water to my hair to damp it before applying any moisturiser. This will open up my hair cuticles and make it absorbs products better. Then I apply one of my favourite moisturisers or I combine them, I seal the moisture in with any oil I have or my DIY Whipped Shea Butter. 

How I Moisturise my hair blog post HERE & video HERE. 

My favourite Moisturisers


See this post on How to Properly Moisturise Natural Hair.



6.        STYLE: After applying my products, I then apply my styler which is usually gel, then I braid, twist on corn row my hair, which I take down the next day or couple of days later  to get my curl definition and style. At times I do wash n go.


  • Shea Moisture Shea & Cupuacu Frizz Defence Gel-cream (Video here)

Twist out with Shea Moisture Shea & Cupuacu Frizz Defence Gel-cream


  • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl Enhancing Smoothie (Video here)

Braid out with Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie


  • Cantu Shea Butter Twist & Lock Gel (Video here)

Twist out with Cantu Shea Butter Twist & Lock Gel


  • Cantu Shea Butter Coconut Curling Cream (Video here)

Twist out with Cantu Shea Butter Coconut Curling Cream


  • Cantu Shea Butter Curl Activator Cream (Video here)

Wash n go with Cantu Shea Butter Curl Activator Cream


  • Flat Twist Out with Eco-styler Gel (Video here)

Flat Twist Out with Eco-styler Gel


That is all I do, no special vitamin or product.

My wash process including styling takes an average of 1 – 2 hours because I have to leave the deep conditioner  in for at least 30 minutes.

I work in sections when washing, detangling or styling my hair. This makes it easier.

I place my hair in desired styles throughout the week without adding any product. I only add Whipped Shea Butter or Olive oil and edge control to my edges, to keep it moisturised and laid. I use

  • Eco-styler Gel or
  • Shea Moisture JBCO Edge Treatment.


  • Side-part Afro

Side-part Afro

  • High Puff;

High puff


  • Sleek Low bun

Sleek low bun



7.       TRIM: I trim my hair every 6 months to get rid of the raggedy ends. How I trim my hair post here.

8.        PROTECTIVE STYLE: On my lazy days or for style switch up, I put my hair in  protective styles such as corn rows, braids, crochet braids, and head wraps





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  1. Vivienne Adhyambo says:

    Great information…..

  2. Cheeddahlooks says:

    hmmmmm…I think you blog will be my new hub for natural hair information. i appreciate the fact that you are very dfetailed in your description. Anyway, what is the difference between co wash and deep conditioning?

    • Kenny Olapade says:

      Thank you dear.
      Co-wash means washing hair with a conditioner like you would a shampoo and rinsing it out immediately while you leave a deep conditioner in for a long period of time; 20-30 minutes or longer. I hope this answers your question.

    • Vivienne Adhyambo says:

      Co washing is using only a rinse out conditioner while deep conditioning is where you use a deep conditioner to treat your hair to add in moisture and strength to the strands of your hair.

  3. Chantel says:

    Beautiful photos and I love your hair.

  4. Oreoluwa Aremo says:

    Your hair is beautiful. Thank you for sharing!
    Oréoluwa’s blog

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